FINDING AND KEEPING THE LOVE YOU TRULY DESERVE

(This is a reprint of a Valentine's Day Article from my tips letter - Law of Attraction Tips. I've taken some liberties and substituted 'Summer' for 'Valentine's Day'...)

Alright, it's just about the end of Summer and you are on either one side of the fence or the other. You are part of the haves or have nots. Most of us want to be on the 'haves' side and some of us are trying to keep our 'have' status. This article is for both of you creatures. :)

Listen, you deserve to find or keep the love you deserve - so, what are you doing about it? If you don't have the love in your life that you want - use the Law of Attraction to get it. Do you find you keep ending up with the same kind of schmucks and schmuckettes? Well, there is a reason for that - you're not using the Law of Attraction deliberately.

Do you spend time going over and over in your mind what went wrong with the last 'love of your life' and have you been focusing on what a strike to your self-esteem they were? Guess what!? You're well on your way to finding an exact behavioural match with different skin on the outside. Get out of that rut, now!

Start being deliberate about the Law of Attraction and start focusing on what you DO want. Start by creating a list of all the character traits you want in your partner. Reframe the negatives into a positive statement (remember what you focus on grows) - for example, if your last partner was demeaning to you in public ask for this - "My ideal partner for me treats me with love and respect at all times". Or, if you had a partner that cheated on you - write down on your list - "My ideal partner has eyes only for me" instead of "My ideal partner doesn't cheat". The universal energy only picks up and reflects back on the feeling of the words (cheat) and doesn't hear negatives (doesn't).

I used to think it would be great to have a very good looking male version of my best friend. Naw, it really wasn't weird! I was focusing on all the fun things my best friend and I would do together and thought it would be great to have a love who would want to do the same kinds of things plus be my love! It worked! It can work for you, too!

Now, for those of you who do have someone in your life. How do you keep them? How do you keep that fire going? I've seen relationship after relationship fall into some pretty predictable patterns where partners fall out of appreciation for each other and that might as well be the death-knell of the relationship. So many of us start to focus on the nit-picky things in life and get frustrated with our partner. You can find terrible things about the most wonderful person in the world if you look and you can find wonderful things about the worst.

It's all about what YOU choose to focus on. What you focus on - you get. If you focus on the other's faults - you literally cannot see the loving person you decided to be with. Your brain works to prove you right. If you have an opinion or are seeking something - your brain will help you find it. So the question is, do you want to see a wonderful, loving person across from you who is perfect in their non-perfection or an uncaring, stupid idiot who just isn't even close to perfect? What you look for - you'll find. If you're in a great relationship - keep focusing on what makes it great. If you're not in a great relationship - start changing your mind. Start looking for the positive aspects in that person.

Have a great last few weeks of the Summer! If your life isn't reflecting what you truly want - I've got great news for you! You can start changing it today and in no time it will be a reflection of what you want on-going. In my podcasts, I take you on a step by step process on how to use the Law of Attraction and I round it this information with practical, useful tidbits in my tips letter.

Make it an awesome day - pass this on to a friend who is attracting it!

Karen.

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